Friday, February 24, 2006

SEA to PDX, Amtrak Style

Are you in the market for a pick-up truck? Something retro perhaps? How about a flatbed to go with it? If you don't mind a little rust and you can figure out a way to extricate the pick-up from the back of the flatbed, I know where you can get a matched set for only $900.00!

In deference to midwinter break, the family and I took a little jaunt southward to Portland; or P-town as my neice Kelli, a sophmore at University of Portland, likes to call it. To change it up a bit, the kids and I ventured off the mighty interstate to take a ride through the countryside aboard Amtrak's #11 Coast Starlight. Oh the sights we saw.

In a few places the scenery was striking; the majestic Olympic Mountains rising up over the peninsula and looking across the Puget Sound, a bald eagle leaping upward right off the edge of it's nest and rising above our train, dewy, bare naked limbs on the trees in the poplar (I think) forests and even a few pretty little farmhouses with white fencing to stitch up their boundaries.

More intriguing however, and unfortunely more common, were the sights that left me wondering what people care about. I lost count the number of cars weathered by time and sinking slowly into the earth, that were left along the tracks or abondoned in streams. I thought it was a joke when I saw not one but three barns (or were they houses?), miles and miles apart, completely engulfed in blackberry brambles. And plentiful too were the yards littered with debris of all kind, including more cars and more trucks. In the 186 miles of rail between Seattle and Portland there were enough rotting vehicles to fill a junkyard the size of Safeco Field.

It was about half way through the trip, about Centraila I'd guess, that I remembered a train ride my son and I took some years back travelling from Paris to the Dordogne region of central France. On that trip I recall being struck by the pristine townships, pastoral views and the sparkling countryside. I saw not even one misplaced vehicle. In fact, every auto that I did see was tucked neatly into the driveway next to it's home.

I wondered then as I do now, why the difference? Is degradation prevention legislated in France? Are they just a more conscientious citizenship? Do the French have more interest in beauty? Are Americans lazy?

I still don't know the answers to my questions, but I do know one thing. When I return to my home, I'm going to take a thoughtful walk around my little piece of the earth and make sure passersby know at least one thing I care about.

By the way, if you are interested in that old pick-up truck, I sincerely hope you are in need of a flatbed too. Because the owner whose property butted up against that rail line clearly stated in his spray-paint on plywood sign that the $900.00 price tag included both vehicles and that no other offers or combinations would be entertained!

Monday, February 20, 2006

Things That Make Me Laugh

... Kids
Linkletter was right, they do say the darndest things. One of the 4 -year- olds in our class told us a story today. It started out, "One day, when I was riding a chicken." But Henry who is a bit wiser having lived a year longer than Sally, could top that. He interrupted with the story about the guard tarantula that sits in front of his family's house, stretching his arms as far as a 5-year- old can, to demonstrate its enormity.

... Olympic Ice Dancing
While I recognize the skill involved here, those gaudy costumes, the farcical twizzles, and the impossible lifts are all just too comical to be considered sport.

... The Tink, Tink, Tink Sound I Hear When I Tap My Finger Against My Head
What the hell is in there? I can only laugh at my inability to grasp the nuances of the English vocabulary ... let alone the spelling of the damn thing. Today was a bit rough. I got a heaping dose of humility and at the same time learned the difference between complement and compliment. I'm still not sure my shiny little brain absorbed any of the lessons, but I do think it's safe to say that I owe my readers a compliment for their patience with my blog.

And gee, don't you think the lime green and periwinkle fonts complement the black wall paper splendidly?

Sunday, February 19, 2006

I Need an iPod ... I Do!

And here, in no particular order, are the reasons why:

1. I’m a sampler. A track or two off this album, a track or two off that album. Rarely the whole album – except ‘Moondance,’ 'Graceland' and ‘Traveling Wilburys Volume I.’


2. I’ve yet to find a radio station that will play Holiday, Caravan and Shipoopi all in one set.


3. Turns out, few people in my home want to listen to my preferred music at my preferred volume.


4. I’d look so cute at the gym with those cord thingies hanging down from my ears and lacing up under my shirt.

5. I'm pretty sure an iPod would thwart my gym-dork image.


6. Shoot, if I had an iPOD I might actually go to the gym!


7. A girl needs her tunes, when she needs them and where she needs them.

What more can I say? I must have an iPod.

Saturday, February 18, 2006

He's Cute, But Can He Catch?

Early reviews of Kenji Johjima, the Mariner’s new catcher, indicate that things look favorable for their latest Japanese import. Johjima arrived at the spring training camp with his red mitt and lunch box in hand. All accounts describe an engaging, energetic hard worker looking to overcome the language barrier and prove himself to be the breath of fresh air the M’s so desperately need.

His first day of camp was spent catching Moyer (“I felt like I was pitching to my dad” ), Gil Meche and George Sherrill. But it was his ‘off time’ that was more telling. Johjima affably spent time with both the American and the Japanese press corps; his every move documented by the forty- some photographers from Japan and the incessant clicking of their cameras. Then he returned to the plate, crouched down behind his back up catcher, Rivera, to watch and take notes on the hurlers he hadn’t caught that morning.

He's having fun too. In baseball, nicknames are as fundamental as knowing how to tweak the line drive. And the veterans are already finding one for Kenji
Moyer: “who are you?”

Johjima, in disbelief that Moyer didn’t recognize the guy he’d been catching back in Seattle:
“Joe … JOE!”

Moyer: “Joe? Joe who? Joe Mama?”

Johjima didn’t quite get the nickname, but got the significance of having one.

Friday, February 17, 2006

Special Delivery

Let’s file this under, ‘What Would You Do?’
Suppose the pizza you ordered half an hour ago was brought piping hot to your door by a teacher at your kid’s posh private school? How about if said teacher was also a parent at said swank school? It's a question I've been faced with often; once a week to be precise. Only, I wasn't the one ordering the pie, I was the one delivering.

While you’re working out your answer, let me tell you what one parent, slash customer, did. First, she hitched up her jaw. Then, she forced a smile and asked incredulously, “What are you doing? Is this for real? What are you doing?” She posed these questions as though I was standing naked on her doorstep; fair enough, in the eyes of this college professor, my second job was just as preposterous. As for my response? Well, what could I say?
It was all true.

For a short time last fall I lived a double life. I was a Montessori assistant- teacher by day and pizza driver by night. The reason why I gave up my Friday nights and became an employee where I was once a devoted customer is simple. Determining that your heart muscle is doubly wounded from the radiation treatment that saved your life 15 years ago turns out to be an expensive jaunt through the land of “we’ll see” and “let’s try this test.” Before I knew it, one thing led to another when I joked with my neighbor Willie last summer about coming to work at the local pizza delivery kitchen. Although he is in his sixties, he refuses to give up his hobby of a job because the “dough is just too good to pass up.” And so with Willie’s relentless encouragement, I signed up to pay off the last bit of my substantial medical bills and do my part for fiscal responsibility.

The reason I'm no longer the ‘pizza mom’ is more complex: the juxtaposition of performing what I would consider blue collar work while living in a white collar world was just not something I could stomach. Straddling the two worlds was a bit awkward to say the least. I’m fairly certain none of my friends would ever consider delivering pizza as way to make a few more bucks.

Luckily, there were lots of perks that made the job tolerable. The work itself was actually quite fun. Chatting with the diverse crew of drivers (each there for a different and sometimes noble reason) between runs was a hoot and something I looked forward to each week. Finding addresses and learning intimately how neighborhoods are arranged was akin to working a puzzle. Deep discounts on the pizza my children adore put me in their highest esteem. In their eyes, my one night each week as ‘pizza mom’ was far nobler than my day job working as a teacher. And when it was all said and done, taking home a hundred bucks each night was pretty sweet, too.

But none of those perks could ever outweigh the sickening feeling one gets when two cultures clash. I’m speaking of the wealthy and the not so wealthy. Or shall I say the perceived wealthy and the perceived not so wealthy?

Let me digress into a little background information. Each of the twelve other drivers has a different reason for donning the regulation Pagliacci polo shirt to augment his or her income. One man in his late 70’s (with more energy than I’ll ever hope to have) is a retired Navy SEAL as well as a patent-holding engineer. I don’t think he can stand being home in the evening without his beloved late wife; so he occupies a few of his nights each week bringing other people their dinners. Another man, in his 60’s as well, is from Beirut and delivers 7 days a week to send his earnings back to his wife and children back home. Of course several of the drivers are college students; one is in pre-med, another in pre-dental, a few are liberal arts majors. Diana is a young grandmother raising her two grandchildren; she needs to be home during the day to take care of the boys so she drives at night. Sean is a musician. Mo, from somewhere in the Middle East, is a father of three. He works pizza 6 nights a week in addition to his full time job in admissions at the University. “I just want to provide a good life for my wife and children,” he once told me. You see? You just never know who’s bringing you your pizza when you answer that knock.

Our customers are diverse as well. The 34 grids representing the neighborhoods on my delivery map cover only about 10 square miles yet represent home values ranging from the low 200’s to in excess of a couple million. You get the picture. One run would be to young kids in their first apartment, the next to a fabulous manse right on the water.

Those are the deliveries that the drivers loathed. And I loathed them too. Not just because I knew before I left the shop, my tip would be minimal, if at all. Not because those neighborhoods chose to dispense with the grid system altogether and plot their streets like something that resembles a plate of spaghetti. But because more often than not, when I rang the doorbell at those magnificent homes I was greeted with an attitude so rank with elitism that there were times I was overcome with that sickening feeling one gets just before you vomit. It was as obvious as the cheese on the pizza that anyone who would stoop to this sort of work had no place in their world. It’s not that I wanted to be invited in and become friends with my clients, I just wanted the same respect they’d give me if they met me at my other job. After all, what would these people think if they knew about my real job? Or about the black tie fundraisers my husband and I attend. I wanted to scream at these people that I too, read the New York Times, The Washington Post, and the Atlantic Monthly. I too, am a public radio subscriber and a member of the art museum. I too, know the best spa in town to a get a hot stone massage. And yes, I work out at the same health club as you. And didn’t I see you at Lampreia the other night? But, try as you might, you just can’t convey all that in a sixty second exchange. Number of runs is the name of the game in the pizza biz. More deliveries equal more money.

And I thought prejudice was obsolete. One time I delivered to a nice home in the neighborhood where my husband grew up and my mother-in-law still lives; that is to say, our home away from home. I knocked on the door of this understated house the Friday after Thanksgiving to be greeted by a perky twenty-something, her college aged sibs and their mother decorating the Christmas tree. A pleasant scene for sure; until miss perky hollered “mom pay the lady.” At which point “mom” scurried off somewhere, presumably to get the checkbook, while I stood waiting with the door wide open and twenty pounds of pizza (it’s heavier than you would think) in hand. As I waited for nearly 5 minutes I couldn’t help but notice the terrific art collection. It wasn’t as if they concealed the Chihuly, after all. When I complemented the woman on the spectacular piece, she eyed me slowly from head to toe (no kidding) and informed be that it was a Dale Chihuly.
“He’s from Seattle you know.”
“Really?” I replied emphatically surprised. “To think, I thought he was a Tacoma native!”
To top off this revolting experience she passed me “two dollars for you dear,” along with the check paying for her dinner.

I know now that it takes a special person to ring those doorbells and deliver those pies. For awhile, it was fun with a capital F. It was just one night a week making it very novel. It was the first time since my allowance earning days that I’d been paid in cash. You can’t imagine what a 5 dollar tip does for your adrenaline.

And now? Now I know that I take a certain social risk if I mention my Friday night occupation while chatting it up with the parents at my school. And an even greater risk when the person on the other side of the door is from my real life. Like it or not, our society is classist. And like it or not we make assumptions based on the work people do.

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

Mom's Mix

Since I’ve not yet been able to meet with my tech guru to learn how to add columns dedicated to the music I’m listening to and the books I'm reading – that’s what all the hip bloggers do, you know – I have to post my latest spin right here.

Since last night, the CD that's been going round and round in my player is a sweet little disc of 14 tracks compiled just for me by my currently golden son.

Said he after school on February 14: “Mom, I’ve got to go shopping.”

Said I: “Oh really? What’s up?”

“Mom it’s a surprise, but I just want to ride my bike to Starbucks.”

“You’ll be home by 5?”

“Yes mom.”

After assuring me of the route he’d be taking, checking for his phone and testing to make sure the tunes in his headphone weren’t too loud, my boy rode off to get me a valentine. I figured he was out to get me a gift card to further enable my cursed addiction to caffeine. To my surprise, upon his return he presented me with an eclectic mix of essential tunes the he entitled Mom’s Mix.

Unaware that he could download and burn a CD right on our own PC, he utilized the hear music console that Starbucks has added to their repertoire; in case the coffee thing doesn’t work out. But then again, if he’d put the CD together at home he’d missed out on the bike ride and the nifty packaging.

So what does a teenager want his mother to listen too? He said something to the effect of “music that you listen to mom, and music that I want you to listen to.”

His selections included a few songs from Green Day, including my favorite Holiday; Scars from somebody called Papa Roach; and the Presidents of the United States of America singing the hilarious, yet soulful Peaches. In deference to my taste he added Sting’s Bring on the Night. In an effort to enlighten me, he chose Smells Like Teen Spirit by Nirvana. And then just to round things out a bit he put in ABBA’s Dancing Queen. For the record, he is the ABBA fan but I can definitely bust out the moves for Dancing Queen if need be!

All and all it’s a great disc and certainly the best Valentine I’ve received in a long, long time.

Friday, February 3, 2006

Tears for Kevin

Have you been lucky enough to see a Purple Martin in the Seattle area lately?
If you have, thank Kevin Li.

Until I’d heard about Kevin’s project, I’d no idea that the largest of all the sparrows once lived and prospered in Western Washington when not wintering in South America. Since 1996, when he was first made aware of their absence, Kevin’s been faithfully keeping house for the Martins. I’ve just seen his gourds hung near Shishole Marina on long abandoned pilings, but I’m told he’s brought the Martins back to other sites around the Puget Sound region as well. He’s somewhat famous among the birding community for his efforts.

It is that community, and many others, that will gather this evening to celebrate the tragic and all-too- premature death of an outstanding person. Kevin was just 50 years old when he suffered what friends and family believe to be a heart attack while diving last Sunday.

The obituaries say he will be missed by the many lives he touched. True enough. I really only knew of him through my cousin Karen, but the few times I met him were enough to genuinely touch me. From Kevin I’ve learned the basics of birding and foraging for prized matsutake mushrooms. Both endeavors, like the rest of his life I imagine, he carried out with the utmost of respect for the earth. The one time he shared his binoculars with me to view some sea ducks on Lake Washington, I was lucky enough to see his quiet, intelligent approach in action. Little did I know, on that evening just last spring, that it would be the last opportunity I’d have to glean just a bit of his knowledge.

Let it be noted here that that this exquisite individual will be deeply missed by someone he hardly knew.

Wednesday, February 1, 2006

Thirty-One Days and Counting

I’m not sure of all the reasons, but for me, January is a bugger. Sure, it starts out fine, renewal and all that. But by the time the kids go back to school, it quickly dissolves into the dark, bleak month that it is. Alas, today is the first day of February. Time to flip the page on the family calendar, time to celebrate surviving the darkest month and gratefully, it is time to move on.

Historically, the second month has always been easier. For that I can attribute a few rituals I begin every year at this time that serve as checkpoints propelling me toward the Vernal Equinox (and ever onward presumably).

Among them is attending the always inspiring Northwest Garden Show with my sister. Not to mention the fabulous dinner and drinks after the show. It is advisable to discuss with your sis all the brilliant ideas you’ve gotten, before going home and bombarding your husband with the changes you plan to make to the yard – employing him as the head laborer, natch.

Not too long after I’ve filed away my pamphlets and ideas from the garden show, will begin the sweetest of all spring rituals. I’ll get to turn my radio to the AM. Dial to hear the man that will yet again coax me through another cold, wet spring: Dave Niehaus, voice of the Seattle Mariners.

About the time I file through the gates at the convention center, Dave will arrive at the Peoria Baseball Complex. While I’ll toil away the final days of winter, he’ll gather the veteran players’ winter stories; learn the names of the innumerable hopefuls trying for a spot on the 25-man roster, and of course scope out the hot new prospects. By the time the first game rolls around, he’ll be ready to wow me with stories and statistics that I’ve been waiting since October to hear.

This year my world will be righted on the third day of March. Precisely at 12:05pm PST Dave and his broadcast partners, Rick Rizz and Ron Fairly, will clear their throats, dust off their microphones and call the first pitch of the first inning of the first spring training game from the sunny fields of Arizona. And each and every day after that broadcast, until what we fans call Opening Day (April 4th at 2:05pm versus the Los Angeles Angels if you’re wondering), I can tune in for a daily update of my boys on the diamond.

And you know, it is only 31 days until March 3!!